This week, Year 9 students have partaken in Morrisby Profile Interviews. This is the second stage in this process. The first part was a survey to uncover their hidden talents. In these interviews experts come in and explain the results of their survey and start to put together suggested avenues to future employment based on the students' passions, skills, interests and capabilities. The students have engaged positively with these and the feedback from the facilitators has been excellent.
Parents and students will receive their last Progress Reports for Semester 1 on 7th May. These will be an indicator of progress being made towards the basic work habits of the classroom. At the same time, teachers will be assessing Learning Tasks. These are the assessment tasks that are set to measure student learning, and these are available on Compass for parents to observe. Learning Tasks will also appear on the Semester Reports which will be published to parents later in the Term.
HOW CAN I GET MY CHILD/TEEN TO SCHOOL
No matter how hard parents try, some students may be reluctant to go to school.
Here are some ideas which may assist you to support a child or teen who is reluctant to go to school and may even be school refusing.
Addressing attendance issues promptly and setting up good attendance patterns can lead to future success and can help students feel more engaged and connected at school.
Some of the more common causes of school problems are underlying learning difficulties or learning disabilities or behavioural or emotional issues.
But there are many other reasons why a child or teen might not be engaging fully in their education.
School factors might include:
Personal factors might include:
Family factors might include:
What you can do
Generally:
Talk to your child. What are their feelings about school? What interests them at school? Are there any difficult situations?
For teens, it helps if you open these discussions in a relaxed way so that your teenager knows you are demonstrating concern, not authority. It’s often a good idea to have these conversations while doing something else together such as driving, preparing dinner or going for a walk. If your teen doesn’t want to talk right then, let them know you’re ready to listen whenever they’re ready to talk
For younger children, talking about the school day shows your interest. Ask simple, positive and specific questions about parts of the day e.g. What was fun? Who did you play with today? Did you help anyone today?
Encourage meaningful extracurricular activities that your child enjoys, such as sports and clubs, to develop positive relationships and experience success outside of a classroom setting. These activities can help your child feel part of the group, important to the school, and more motivated
For teens, try to be aware of your child’s social contacts. Peer influence can lead to skipping school, while students without many friends can feel isolated
Set clear parameters around part-time work. Make sure that the hours your teenager is working do not impact on their ability to go to school the next day or interfere with school assessment expectations or exam preparation. Most schools recommend no more than 10 hours per week.
Try not to schedule hair, dental or medical appointments during school hours. Arrange family holidays during scheduled school holidays so that students don’t miss out on classes and feel left behind.
If it is necessary to be absent from school for an extended period, arrange with your school for a Student Absence Learning Plan.
Familiarise yourself with the school’s Attendance Policy. This can help when trying to reason with a child or teenager who is resisting going to school
Monitor your child’s attendance and school performance. Periodically check with their teachers to find out how things are going. If you find it difficult to contact several different teachers by phone, try email. Alternatively, the Year Level Coordinator may be a helpful point of contact in relation to specific issues.
If your child wants to stay home to finish an assignment, rather than letting them stay home, expect them to go to school. Make attendance the number one priority. Later, you can discuss with them how they can improve their study habits or adjust their schedule
If your school has an assessment calendar on its website, use this to help your child plan their study so that they avoid working late the night before an assignment is due
School refusing children experience significant emotional distress not only when going to school but also at the thought of going to school; they may be absent from school for weeks or even months at a time. School refusal differs from truancy as children generally stay home with the knowledge of the parents and despite their best efforts to encourage their child to go to school.
School refusal can be very distressing for parents who can find it very difficult to manage and address; it can cause conflict in the home and disrupt routines.
Identifying the cause of school refusal can be difficult; there may be a number of complex causes. Early intervention is essential as prolonged absences from school can greatly affect a child’s social and emotional development, academic achievement and vocational opportunities.
Sometimes you may need assistance from professionals who can help anxious children. Discuss your concerns with relevant teachers or wellbeing staff at your child’s school. They can help address any school-based issues, refer your child to school counselling services and make recommendations about professional support.
Alternatively, you could seek support from your GP who can assist with a referral to mental health professional such as a psychologist, psychiatrist or therapist. They can help your child overcome their anxiety using mindfulness, improving self-confidence and self-esteem and helping children change the way they think about difficult situations.
Remember:
You can talk with school staff (such as a teacher, Year Level Coordinator, wellbeing staff, careers staff, Assistant Principal or Principal) to find out what support they can provide to keep your child/teen attending and engaged.
Schools want to work in partnership with parents – act early if you have any concerns by contacting your child’s school and asking for advice and support
Remember that every day counts
There is no safe number of days for missing school – each day a student misses puts them behind, and can affect their educational outcomes and their social connectedness
Talk positively about school and the importance of attending every day
Open and prompt communication with your child’s school about all absences is a good idea
Avoid making routine medical and dental appointments during the school day or planning family holidays during the Term
Seek help from your school if you are concerned about your child’s attendance and wellbeing. Schools want to work in partnership with parents to support student attendance and wellbeing
Department of Education and Training - https://www.education.vic.gov.au/school/teachers/studentmanagement/attendance/Pages/default.aspx
Kids Matter - www.kidsmatter.edu.au
Youth Beyond Blue - www.youthbeyondblue.com.au
Headspace - www.headspace.org.au
Reach Out – www.reachout.com
Raising Children Network - www.raisingchildren.net.au
Kids helpline - 1800 55 1800 24 hours a day, 7 days a week or web counselling
Parentline – 1300 30 1300 (8am to 10pm seven days a week) & web counselling Tuesdays and Thursdays between 11am and 2pm
This week, Year 9 students have partaken in Morrisby Profile Interviews. This is the second stage in this process. The first part was a survey to uncover their hidden talents. In these interviews experts come in and explain the results of their survey and start to put together suggested avenues to future employment based on the students' passions, skills, interests and capabilities. The students have engaged positively with these and the feedback from the facilitators has been excellent.
Parents and students will receive their last Progress Reports for Semester 1 on 7th May. These will be an indicator of progress being made towards the basic work habits of the classroom. At the same time, teachers will be assessing Learning Tasks. These are the assessment tasks that are set to measure student learning, and these are available on Compass for parents to observe. Learning Tasks will also appear on the Semester Reports which will be published to parents later in the Term.
HOW CAN I GET MY CHILD/TEEN TO SCHOOL
No matter how hard parents try, some students may be reluctant to go to school.
Here are some ideas which may assist you to support a child or teen who is reluctant to go to school and may even be school refusing.
Addressing attendance issues promptly and setting up good attendance patterns can lead to future success and can help students feel more engaged and connected at school.
Some of the more common causes of school problems are underlying learning difficulties or learning disabilities or behavioural or emotional issues.
But there are many other reasons why a child or teen might not be engaging fully in their education.
School factors might include:
Personal factors might include:
Family factors might include:
What you can do
Generally:
Talk to your child. What are their feelings about school? What interests them at school? Are there any difficult situations?
For teens, it helps if you open these discussions in a relaxed way so that your teenager knows you are demonstrating concern, not authority. It’s often a good idea to have these conversations while doing something else together such as driving, preparing dinner or going for a walk. If your teen doesn’t want to talk right then, let them know you’re ready to listen whenever they’re ready to talk
For younger children, talking about the school day shows your interest. Ask simple, positive and specific questions about parts of the day e.g. What was fun? Who did you play with today? Did you help anyone today?
Encourage meaningful extracurricular activities that your child enjoys, such as sports and clubs, to develop positive relationships and experience success outside of a classroom setting. These activities can help your child feel part of the group, important to the school, and more motivated
For teens, try to be aware of your child’s social contacts. Peer influence can lead to skipping school, while students without many friends can feel isolated
Set clear parameters around part-time work. Make sure that the hours your teenager is working do not impact on their ability to go to school the next day or interfere with school assessment expectations or exam preparation. Most schools recommend no more than 10 hours per week.
Try not to schedule hair, dental or medical appointments during school hours. Arrange family holidays during scheduled school holidays so that students don’t miss out on classes and feel left behind.
If it is necessary to be absent from school for an extended period, arrange with your school for a Student Absence Learning Plan.
Familiarise yourself with the school’s Attendance Policy. This can help when trying to reason with a child or teenager who is resisting going to school
Monitor your child’s attendance and school performance. Periodically check with their teachers to find out how things are going. If you find it difficult to contact several different teachers by phone, try email. Alternatively, the Year Level Coordinator may be a helpful point of contact in relation to specific issues.
If your child wants to stay home to finish an assignment, rather than letting them stay home, expect them to go to school. Make attendance the number one priority. Later, you can discuss with them how they can improve their study habits or adjust their schedule
If your school has an assessment calendar on its website, use this to help your child plan their study so that they avoid working late the night before an assignment is due
School refusing children experience significant emotional distress not only when going to school but also at the thought of going to school; they may be absent from school for weeks or even months at a time. School refusal differs from truancy as children generally stay home with the knowledge of the parents and despite their best efforts to encourage their child to go to school.
School refusal can be very distressing for parents who can find it very difficult to manage and address; it can cause conflict in the home and disrupt routines.
Identifying the cause of school refusal can be difficult; there may be a number of complex causes. Early intervention is essential as prolonged absences from school can greatly affect a child’s social and emotional development, academic achievement and vocational opportunities.
Sometimes you may need assistance from professionals who can help anxious children. Discuss your concerns with relevant teachers or wellbeing staff at your child’s school. They can help address any school-based issues, refer your child to school counselling services and make recommendations about professional support.
Alternatively, you could seek support from your GP who can assist with a referral to mental health professional such as a psychologist, psychiatrist or therapist. They can help your child overcome their anxiety using mindfulness, improving self-confidence and self-esteem and helping children change the way they think about difficult situations.
Remember:
You can talk with school staff (such as a teacher, Year Level Coordinator, wellbeing staff, careers staff, Assistant Principal or Principal) to find out what support they can provide to keep your child/teen attending and engaged.
Schools want to work in partnership with parents – act early if you have any concerns by contacting your child’s school and asking for advice and support
Remember that every day counts
There is no safe number of days for missing school – each day a student misses puts them behind, and can affect their educational outcomes and their social connectedness
Talk positively about school and the importance of attending every day
Open and prompt communication with your child’s school about all absences is a good idea
Avoid making routine medical and dental appointments during the school day or planning family holidays during the Term
Seek help from your school if you are concerned about your child’s attendance and wellbeing. Schools want to work in partnership with parents to support student attendance and wellbeing
Department of Education and Training - https://www.education.vic.gov.au/school/teachers/studentmanagement/attendance/Pages/default.aspx
Kids Matter - www.kidsmatter.edu.au
Youth Beyond Blue - www.youthbeyondblue.com.au
Headspace - www.headspace.org.au
Reach Out – www.reachout.com
Raising Children Network - www.raisingchildren.net.au
Kids helpline - 1800 55 1800 24 hours a day, 7 days a week or web counselling
Parentline – 1300 30 1300 (8am to 10pm seven days a week) & web counselling Tuesdays and Thursdays between 11am and 2pm